Ask Gay Men

First off, most of us don't have one "type",I think, for example I have never been able to look at a guy and say he is hot because and name one attribute that made that true. To add to that I have had people "get sexy" that that I swore I would never want to date/hookup with because of conversation, talent, and all kinds of crazy shit. Now with all that out of the way, not "what's your type" but what are some dating standards that you hold onto more or less rigidly? I will start with a little reluctance, I was, and still am to a much lesser extent a heavy man, but I don't find myself compatible with other heavy people, bulky, bearish, or a little fluffy. I felt I was being hypocritical and that was part of the reason I am working hard to get into shape.

Hey everyone! I noticed while there was a !askgaybros@lemmy.cock.social , there was no community for less-graphic questions regarding being gay. I'd like this community to still be able to discuss sex-based questions, but trying to keep it as SFW as possible. If you seem to not be able to ask a question without being overtly graphic, head over to the other community up above! I loved the subreddits before the API changes, and would love to bring over a loving and nurturing community here!