chloespanked 1d ago • 100%
I've been self-locking on and off for several years. I now use a cherry keeper cage that is basically the size of my glans. Sometimes I put it on as foreplay to fapping in the next couple hours. Mostly I try (barrier is comfort) to wear it all-day on days that I wear it. I'd love to be able to wear it as much of the time as possible (eg, 24/7 and only unlock for small periods of time for predefined tasks like routine hygiene). I suppose I'm slowly learning to wear it for longer periods of time. I often but not always unlock and fap/masturbate afterwards - before I go to sleep for example. I'm more interested in the gendering and orgasm control effects of chastity (eg, can't fap, masturbate, or penetrate anyone and are sub-like) than I am pure orgasm denial. Having a partner who is my keyholder would be a dream come true. I suppose I'm slowly working my way there (hopefully) as I become more confident with who I am, including that chastity might be a sexual non-negotiable for me (not all the time necessarily, but at least some of the time).
::: spoiler More the 'why' I engage in chastity (content warning: gender dysphoria): Chastity is a fun fetish but on a more holistic level, I'm beginning to see my desire to wear my cage as a barometer of gender dysphoria. For example, if I wake up and want to put on my cage right away, I'll do so but I'm also making a mental note that I'm probably feeling significantly dysphoric and I should address that today beyond just the cage. Because the cage is great but it's not an all-in-one long-term solution to gender dysphoria for me. :::
chloespanked 2mo ago • 100%
Yay K.K.! I'm happy for you :D
chloespanked 2mo ago • 100%
Thanks for your comment. I've taken down photos where people have pointed out image manipulation before, but I'm not convinced in this case. I'm not sure what you mean by big weird rubbery mess. Comparing it with the other shoulder, the outline is different and there are two dark marks on her skin by the straps of her shirt. The first seems to me as plausibly and most parsimoniously explained by a pretty apparent shadow caused by the big PP. I don't know about the dark marks. And I feel the image quality is too low for me to notice her overall skin quality looking different between elbows. I'm happy to be corrected, but you haven't yet swayed me
chloespanked 3mo ago • 100%
Thanks, KK, you know how to make a sissy feel special ☺️❤️
chloespanked 3mo ago • 100%
Mmmm, so hot 🔥 This would be a good jumping off point for many relevant erotic fiction ideas: overhearing them having sex, fantasizing about doing it with the sister's boyfriend, becoming a bottom, etc.
chloespanked 3mo ago • 100%
A guy coming in my mouth would be sooo hot, which I haven't actually had even though I've given head, and that's what I'd pick. It feels degrading to me but in the best and hottest way possible. I'd like to taste it. I love the thought of him thrusting in my mouth when he's close and possibly shooting down my throat too (although I wouldn't get to taste it in that case)
chloespanked 3mo ago • 100%
Maybe I'm going to state the obvious here but how long since your last ejaculation comes to mind as the biggest factor: several days ago > yesterday > same day
chloespanked 3mo ago • 100%
Or he's gay and not into large members lol. But my $'s on drugs 🤪
chloespanked 3mo ago • 100%
Yeah. Even I'd swell a little 🙈. It's funny to think about it though because usually in porn everyone's trying to keep all the dicks hard not soft lol
chloespanked 3mo ago • 100%
I love it. She's cute, with an Avril Lavigne look. Great cocks. I'd love to see more pics! (Random thought: if you're in a cuckold porn (as the cuckold), are you taking a pharmaceutical to prevent any hint of a boner? I might: being as small and soft as possible in the scene would be pretty hot to me)
chloespanked 3mo ago • 100%
The poke forward is an issue when flaccid, not erect. I'm a grower vs a shower though. I have a small cherry keeper cage (my aforementioned #1 cage--although it's not perfect for me). I got the same headlock size for the headless cage that I have for my small cage. Before I rule the headless cage out in theory as a cage fit for long-term wear, I'd like to try a smaller headlock. I haven't yet investigated this enough, but I'm concerned there might be untenable rub of the headlock against the glans that'd cause irritation prohibiting long-term wear (again, not while erect, just while going about daily wear). With the caveats laid out, I tend to see it as more of a for show/ play/ sex/ masturbation cage for now, as opposed to one suited for long-term wear, but I have more research to do.
Thanks for the update, I appreciate it :D (I'm not on reddit). Yeah, overall that sounds positive!
chloespanked 3mo ago • 100%
If it's any consolation, I wrote my review at the peak of the novelty of my headless cage. Two weeks after receiving it, a 'regular' cage is still my #1 cage by far. With the headless one, the penis could poke forward, and peeing often required lifting the glans/head a bit with 2 fingers to avoid urine stream on the balls. I'd love to be locked daily except for sleep and exercise (as a step towards maybe truly permalocked one day), and I'm trying to build up to it with a 'regular' cage one atm. I hope we see JosieLynn back again soon!
chloespanked 3mo ago • 100%
I appreciate you sharing. I can definitely relate to some of that. I hope you find some dom(me)s/switches too for some CNC ;)
chloespanked 3mo ago • 100%
What's your exact type/ what might scare him off?
chloespanked 3mo ago • 100%
You're gorgeous, look like a lot of fun, and have great boobs
chloespanked 3mo ago • 100%
I love it! The ripped off top kind of makes the censoring more satisfying/frustrating (depending on one's point of view :)
chloespanked 3mo ago • 100%
🚨🚨🚨
Cover your eyes
This is not a drill
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chloespanked 3mo ago • 100%
#@$%ing Steve being ridiculous again. Nice cock tho
chloespanked 3mo ago • 100%
That's hot 🔥. I've never done SPH or anything like it with a gf but I'd love to