Weekly Discussion: 14 October 2024
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    yenahmik
    2d ago 100%

    What percentage salary increase would you need to change jobs (assuming you like the one you're currently at)?

    Context: I was reached out to by a recruiter for a role in my niche industry. It seems exciting, but accounting for the current benefits I have compared with the benefits at the new role, it would only be like a 10% raise at best. That doesn't seem like it would be worth it, but maybe I'm just looking for excuses to avoid change....

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  • Weekly Discussion: 30 September 2024
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    yenahmik
    3w ago 100%

    Oof. Got news today that a coworker in their 40s passed away this weekend. They worked Friday and died Saturday. If that's not a punch in the face to retire early, I don't know what is. I certainly want to have as much retirement as possible, and not die after slaving away for years without being able to enjoy it.

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  • Weekly Discussion: 16 September 2024
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    yenahmik
    1mo ago 100%

    Just applied for a new job for the first time since a couple of years ago. Here's hoping it works out, since it would pay more, have more PTO, and would give me more retirement accounts to max out (pension, 403b and a 457!). I've been in my current role closing in on a decade. Usually, when I apply for other jobs by the time I get to the interview stages I'm not as interested in leaving. I'll see if that happens this time around or not, since I'm doing this in response to RTO after being WFH for the past 4 years.

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  • Weekly Discussion: 2 September 2024
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    yenahmik
    2mo ago 100%

    I've snagged a few deals on CDs but haven't done bonus churning. I feel like having to move my money in and out of various institutions and holding it for the required period is too onerous. I'd rather just shovel any extra funds into investments and forget it.

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  • Weekly Discussion: 26 August 2024
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    yenahmik
    2mo ago 100%

    That's what I'm hoping. My manager has been WFH herself for over 15 years, so I think it shouldn't be a huge issue. Last time I was very upfront about not wanting to go back in, and it sounded like the worst case would be being reclassified as a remote employee. Hopefully that remains the case.

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  • Weekly Discussion: 26 August 2024
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    yenahmik
    2mo ago 100%

    My manager informed me that word is they are going to start pushing RTO again. Last time they tried was the end of 2021 and it failed miserably, since everyone just ignored it. I told her it just doesn't make sense for day to day work when the team is not co-located. We'll see what they do this time around to get people to actually show up. I've now spent an equal amount of time at this job between going in full time (pre Covid) and WFH. I really like WFH and it is one of the major reasons I haven't seriously job searched recently. I may have to ramp up applying to new jobs if this mandate has any teeth.

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  • Weekly Discussion: 19 August 2024
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    yenahmik
    2mo ago 100%

    What are everyone's thoughts about paying off your mortgage pre-retirement?

    I got enormously lucky and refinanced at the very bottom of mortgage rates in 2020. Conventional wisdom would be to never pay this off as it's effectively free money. However it is costing us roughly $20k a year in added expenses, which I could see as having a massive impact on ACA and FAFSA (assuming a future child) in retirement.

    I'm getting to the point where if I want to pay this off before retirement, without having to sell investments, I'd need to start diverting funds from investments into a cash account (since HYSA is currently > mortgage rate) to have enough saved to lump sum in at retirement. Another option I've been considering is saving enough cash/equivalents to cover mortgage payments without paying it off. However I'm looking at roughly 20 years of remaining payments at retirement and I'm not sure if that is a good strategy or not. Thoughts?

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  • Weekly Discussion: 12 August 2024
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    yenahmik
    2mo ago 100%

    Pleased to realize that between my taxable account and Roth IRA contributions, I now have 5 years expenses saved to support a future conversion ladder in retirement. I'm still a ways out, but it's cool to realize that even if I don't save anymore post-tax, I'll be able to access my funds penalty free.

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  • Weekly Discussion: 15 July 2024
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    yenahmik
    3mo ago 100%

    I'd consider a CD ladder with the amount needed for each tranche maturing at the time I'd need it (depending on rates I could get compared to HYSA rates).

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  • Weekly Discussion: 15 July 2024
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    yenahmik
    3mo ago 100%

    Holy compounding growth! I can't believe that I just crossed the $500k invested mark in January and I'm already just one more good day from hitting $600k. I very well could cross that line in time for the end of month spreadsheet day. (Don't worry, now that I've put that thought out there, we'll certainly see a market crash)

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  • Weekly Discussion: 8 July 2024
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    yenahmik
    3mo ago 100%

    A particularly sucky way to save money: skip your spouse's birthday celebration because you both got sick just in time for their birthday.

    I feel especially bad because I dragged them to an event last week and they've been sick since we got home. Of course karma means they gave me their illness and I've been feeling bad since yesterday.

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  • Weekly Discussion: 8 July 2024
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    yenahmik
    3mo ago 100%

    I've done similarly. I reached a breaking point where I'd hear about a show or movie and think I'd like to see it, only for it to be on one of the bazillion services I don't have. Now if there's something I want to watch, I'll check if it's on a service I have access to. If not, I'll get it through other means.

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  • Weekly Discussion: 24 June 2024
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    yenahmik
    4mo ago 100%

    Frugal "win" of the day:

    I over stretched my hamstring last week and sitting all day hurts. I was able to scrounge a perfectly sized box to transform my normal desk into a standing desk. Now I'm just hoping I can reduce the pain enough to survive the major tournament I'm travelling for next week.

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  • Weekly Discussion: 3 June 2024
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    yenahmik
    5mo ago 100%

    Next week I'm going on vacation. The senioritis at work is real! I have no desire to do anything productive this week (besides obsessively checking the weather forecast for my destination)

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  • Weekly Discussion: 20 May 2024
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    yenahmik
    5mo ago 100%

    Today's my wedding anniversary (sort of, thanks to COVID causing us to have multiple anniversary dates).

    It's amazing how much marrying the right person can accelerate your timelines. My spouse was in the "work til I die" camp when we first met. However, they were always very frugal. Now we both dream of FIRE and have a pretty significant net worth.

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  • Weekly Discussion: 13 May 2024
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    yenahmik
    5mo ago 100%

    My most recent meaningless milestone:

    With a 4% withdrawal rate, my current investment balance supports a monthly equivalent to my takehome pay of one paycheck. So I'm basically getting 12 additional paychecks a year from my investment balance.

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    Personal Finance yenahmik 8mo ago 68%
    Money tips from one of the greatest investors in history
    https://www.npr.org/2018/12/12/676158680/your-cheat-sheet-for-smarter-investing
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    aww yenahmik 10mo ago 96%
    Christmas Axolotl
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    https://www.npr.org/2023/12/11/1216083869/favorite-hobby-ideas#:~:text=Your%20favorite%20hobbies%20of%20the%20year%20%3A%20NPR&text=Your%20favorite%20hobbies%20of%20the%20year%20We%20asked%2C%20you%20answered,were%20really%20into%20this%20year.

    Fencing is a challenging sport. It might look easy — and honestly, when I first joined, it was. In about a week I was able to beat every kid in the beginner class. But it only stayed easy for a little while. The difficult thing about fencing is the mental demand. I had to learn so many moves, constantly had to keep my posture in check, to guess my opponent's next moves, and correspond accordingly. What made the mental and physical exertion worse was, at one point, every person surrounding me while fencing seemed better than me. They were fast, their posture was perfect, and they could do multiple things at once. I was on the verge of quitting. I couldn't beat any kid in the advanced class, and I was too embarrassed to fence them. But one day I decided to just watch them. I should have been considering how much they actually practiced. The students weren't born pro fencers — they put in effort every day. They never slacked off. I saw that the only way to overcome a challenge is to have the mindset to do so. Now it's been two years since I joined fencing. Every day, I try. I practice to the best of my abilities. I was able to fence and defeat my first advanced opponent, and I was invited to the advanced class. Fencing has taught me that challenges can appear anywhere, and you can't just give up. The only way to reach your goal is to face it. Don't quit because you can't do it; try harder and overcome it. Thanks to fencing, I've learned that I'm the only person who can control my life. — Misheel Tamir

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    https://www.npr.org/sections/goatsandsoda/2023/12/07/1217478771/its-one-of-the-biggest-experiments-in-fighting-global-poverty-now-the-results-ar#:~:text=It's%20an%20unprecedented%20%E2%80%93%20and%20massive,payments%20coming%20for%2012%20years.

    It's an unprecedented – and massive – experiment: Since 2017 the U.S.-based charity GiveDirectly has been providing thousands of villagers in Kenya what's called a "universal basic income" – a cash grant of about $50, delivered every month, with the commitment to keep the payments coming for 12 years. It is a crucial test of what many consider one of the most cutting-edge ideas for alleviating global poverty. This week a team of independent researchers who have been studying the impact released their first results.

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    I've always been a fencesitter when it comes to having kids. I'm getting to a point where I *think* I'd like to have a kid. I don't know if it's because I really want one, or there's just nothing major left on the list of life accomplishments and it's a societal expectation. The thing is, I can think of a million and one reasons not to have one and can't put into words why I would want one. However, I'm starting to have a nagging feeling that I want to start trying. I just don't know if that feeling is something I actually want, or just society telling me I should. It doesn't help that I don't have a lot of small children I regularly interact with, so I honestly don't have a clue what life would look like after kids, beyond it being a lot of stress and hard work. It also doesn't help my spouse says it's my choice and they'll go along with whatever I want . Any advice or things that helped you know it was the right choice/time for you to expand your family?

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    Photography yenahmik 11mo ago 100%
    People's Choice Awards - Wildlife Photographer of the Year
    https://www.nhm.ac.uk/wpy/peoples-choice
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    Boardgames yenahmik 11mo ago 81%
    Board game suggestions for Marvel/comic fans?

    I got my father-in-law for the family secret Santa this year. He's super into Marvel/comics and I was thinking of getting him a marvel/superhero themed board game he can play with the family. Google returned a bunch of different options for Marvel themed games, but I can't tell which are good or bad. What games would you recommend for gifting?

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